The Highest Culture Is To Speak No Ill; The Best Reformer Is The Man Whose Eyes Are Quick To See All Beauty And All Worth; And By His Own Discreet, Well-Ordered Life, Alone Reproves The Erring. When They Gaze Turns It On Thine Own Soul, Be Most Severe. But When It Falls Upon A Fellow-Man Let Kindliness Control It; And Refrain From That Belittling Censure That Springs Forth From Common Lips Like Weeds From Marshy Soil.